In a world where even well-intentioned advice from family can lead you astray, it's crucial to remember that true guidance comes from God—not from those whose perspectives are shaped by a false system. Many Mormon family members, though loving, may offer counsel that reflects their own beliefs rather than the unchanging truth of Scripture.

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Should You Leave the Mormon Church?

Every believer faces moments of decision when the question arises: “How do I know if it’s God’s voice or just my own thoughts?” In today’s world—where even our closest friends and family can unintentionally mislead us—it’s essential to learn from Scripture and the example of Paul. His journey, recorded in Acts 21–22 (NLT), offers profound insight into discerning God’s will even when it challenges our most deeply held attachments.

The Challenge of Discerning God’s Voice

The Bible reminds us in Jeremiah 17:9–10 (NLT) that “the human heart is the most deceitful of all things… But I, the LORD, search all hearts and examine secret motives.” Our own desires, combined with well-meaning advice, can cloud our judgment and make it difficult to distinguish between our thoughts and God’s true direction. Often, we listen for what we want to hear rather than what God is actually saying to us.

Paul’s Journey: A Model for Spiritual Discernment

In Acts 20:22–23 (NLT), Paul declares, “I am bound by the Spirit… I don’t know what awaits me except that jail and suffering lie ahead.” Yet, as he continued his journey, Paul encountered conflicting messages. In Acts 21:4 (NLT), local believers, moved by the Holy Spirit, warned him not to go to Jerusalem, and later, Agabus’s dramatic prophecy (Acts 21:10–12, NLT) further complicated matters. Despite these warnings, Paul’s unwavering commitment to Jesus led him to boldly proclaim, “The Lord’s will be done” (Acts 21:13–14, NLT). His example teaches us that true clarity comes not from a momentary decision but from a lifelong dedication to following Jesus.

The “Friendship Effect” and Ruinous Empathy

Even those who care for us deeply—our best friends and loving parents—can sometimes offer advice that reflects their own desires rather than God’s truth. This “friendship effect” or “ruinous empathy” can lure us into staying in familiar yet spiritually compromising situations. When seeking God’s guidance, it is crucial to remember that the Holy Spirit speaks above every other voice, urging us toward the unfiltered truth of God’s Word rather than comforting but ultimately misleading opinions.

Leaving the Mormon Church: A Call to True Discipleship

For those questioning, “Should you leave the Mormon church?” the answer is found in a commitment to discerning God’s voice with clarity and conviction. When we compare the unyielding call of Paul with the complex and sometimes deceptive counsel we receive from those within our communities, it becomes clear that a life devoted to Jesus demands obedience—even if that means leaving behind institutions that stray from biblical truth. From an evangelical perspective, the Mormon church’s teachings and practices often diverge from the foundational truths of Scripture. Just as Paul was willing to face suffering for the sake of the gospel (Acts 9:15–16, NLT; Acts 14:22, NLT), so must we be prepared to make difficult decisions that honor the true voice of God in our lives.

Embracing a Lifelong Commitment to Jesus

Discerning God’s voice isn’t a one-time event; it’s the fruit of a lifelong commitment to Christ. By immersing ourselves in God’s Word, praying for discernment, and surrounding ourselves with godly counsel, we cultivate the spiritual sensitivity needed to distinguish His voice from our own thoughts. Paul’s example reminds us that following Jesus may require rejecting the comfortable and familiar in favor of a more challenging, yet rewarding, path toward eternal truth.

Conclusion

In our journey of faith, we must be willing to listen carefully to the voice of the Holy Spirit and not be swayed by well-meaning but misguided counsel. When the call to follow Jesus demands that you leave behind teachings and communities that do not align with Scripture, the answer is clear: yes, you should leave the Mormon church.